I drove around the country asking talented teachers and interesting people:
“What is the most vital lesson we need to teach kids?”
While watching the abridged version of Randy Pausch’s “Last Lecture” on The Oprah Winfrey Show, I was captivated. Not just by his deeply affecting lesson, but by what he says in his intro.
“There’s an academic tradition called ‘The Last Lecture.’ Hypothetically, if you knew you were going to die and you had one last lecture, what would you say to your students?”
It’s the best question I’ve ever heard directed toward teachers. And even though I’ve thought long and hard about how I’d answer it —I keep changing my mind — I thought even longer and harder about how I could amend and use Dr. Pausch’s question to help teachers and their students. My Vital Lesson is the culmination of that thinking. A way to learn and share the best from the best.
The essence of the project is to ask transformative teachers,
"What lesson do you most want your students to learn? How do you teach it? In other words, what is your most vital lesson?"
Initially, I spent three months driving around the country meeting with all types of teachers in all kinds of places, from the Navajo Reservation in Chinle, Arizona to the heart of Appalachia in Pikeville, Kentucky.
The project continues to evolve as I document the vital lessons from the best teachers and the wisest people I’ve been lucky enough to meet.
Monica and Joe Pickenpaugh are Officers in the United States Air Force—and teachers. Joe teachers is squadron personnel, while Monica is a professor at the Air Force Academy.
Chapter 12: Appalachian Wisdom
From what Traci, Mary, and Rusty told me, that’s not the case in hollers of eastern Kentucky. There, where their extended families have lived for generations, everyone has a strong sense of place and home. They value their place in the world.
Chapter 10: Florida, Meredith, and Living Organically
Yes, choosing a life means not choosing other lives. To keep from overly mourning those lost lives, we have to embrace all that’s good in the one we have.
Chapter 9: No more Jackie Papers, please
Puff and Jackie were best buds. They “frolicked in the autumn mist in a land called Honah Lee.” They had wonderful times and great adventures.
Until Jackie tore Puff’s soul apart.

